Excellence‚ not average‚ is your measure. Taking something from below average to slightly above average takes a great deal of effort and in your opinion is not very rewarding. Transforming something strong into something superb takes just as much effort but is much more thrilling. Strengths‚ whether yours or someone else's‚ fascinate you. Like a diver after pearls‚ you search them out‚ watching for the telltale signs of a strength. A glimpse of untutored excellence‚ rapid learning‚ a skill mastered without recourse to steps -- all these are clues that a strength may be in play. And having found a strength‚ you feel compelled to nurture it‚ refine it‚ and stretch it toward excellence. You polish the pearl until it shines. This natural sorting of strengths means that others see you as discriminating. You choose to spend time with people who appreciate your particular strengths. Likewise‚ you are attracted to others who seem to have found and cultivated their own strengths. You tend to avoid those who want to fix you and make you well rounded. You don't want to spend your life bemoaning what you lack. Rather‚ you want to capitalize on the gifts with which you are blessed. It's more fun. It's more productive. And‚ counter intuitively‚ it is more demanding. 