<h1><span style="font-size: small;">Connectedness</span></h1>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Things happen for a reason. You are sure of it. You are sure of it because in your soul you know that we are all connected. Yes, we are individuals, responsible for our own judgments and in possession of our own free will, but nonetheless we are part of something larger. Some may call it the collective unconscious. Others may label it spirit or life force. But whatever your word of choice, you gain confidence from knowing that we are not isolated from one another or from the earth and the life on it. This feeling of Connectedness implies certain responsibilities. If we are all part of a larger picture, then we must not harm others because we will be harming ourselves. We must not exploit because we will be exploiting ourselves. Your awareness of these responsibilities creates your value system. You are considerate, caring, and accepting. Certain of the unity of humankind, you are a bridge builder for people of different cultures. Sensitive to the invisible hand, you can give others comfort that there is a purpose beyond our humdrum lives. The exact articles of your faith will depend on your upbringing and your culture, but your faith is strong. It sustains you and your close friends in the face of life's mysteries.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Consider roles that ask   you to listen and to counsel. You can become adept at helping other   people see connection and purpose in everyday occurrences.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Schedule time for meditation or contemplation. Reflect upon: how   your religious beliefs affirm your sense of connection to others; how your   sense of connection gives you stability through your faith in people, the   role of coincidences in your life.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Make a list of the experiences that support your sense of   connection.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Explore specific ways to expand your sense of connection, such   as starting a book club, attending a retreat, or joining an organization that   puts Connectedness into practice.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Within your organization, help your colleagues understand how   their efforts fit in the larger picture. You can be a leader in building   teams and helping people feel important.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Help those around you   cope with unpredictable and unexplainable events. In particular, you can help   people find meaning in even sickness and death. Your perspective will bring   comfort.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Partner with someone with   a strong Communication theme. This person can help you with the words   you need to describe vivid examples of connection in the real world.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;">Don't spend too much time   attempting to persuade others to see the world as a linked web. Be   aware that your sense of connection is intuitive. If others don't share your   intuition, rational argument will not persuade them.</span></p>
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